“Super, serious, big-time trouble.” So said a t-shirt I saw once in the boys’ department of a major retailer of children’s apparel, alongside other shirts describing boys as mischievous monsters, little devils, tough guys, and video game addicts who hate school.
That is the message our culture sends about boys and I believed it for a long time. Having had no brothers to give me a different perspective, I thought that boys were inherently difficult — perpetual motion machines with destructive tendencies and a disdain for authority.
So entrenched is this stereotype that when I was expecting my